Monday, January 3, 2011
Chapter 195:
at 23:55
Things you require before you enter a relationship:
- Self-love.
- A trust-worthy friend.
This is important, because you don't ever want to love the other person so much more than you love yourself that you lose yourself.
That he/she will never want the worse (or rather, Not want the best), for you.
Be confident that he/she gives you the honest feedback that you need, not want, to hear.
If you don't have any, don't even contemplate a relationship.
I mean it.
I'm losing faith in people to be:
(i) smarter than I expect them to be,
(ii) nicer than I want them to be.
Am I offering too much benefits of the doubts even from what I've seen previously?
How much evil/harm/hurt is one capable of?
How much evil/harm/hurt must one be inflicted with before the awakening?
& who am I to judged really, when I:
(i) was once a victim for 6 looooong years, and even now still see shadows of the stupid person,
(ii) am not a participant of this entire event.
Disclaimer: Not implying anything, but for eyes of someone who understands that no matter how exasperated I sound, I stand by him.
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I like experiences, even if through eyes and ears of others.
I value them even more if the said owners of the 5 senses are the wonderful people I cherish in life.
But, I think, with experience comes maturity and cynicism, hand in hand.
& in this second, I am thinking how do I gain the former while by-passing the other.
Simply because, I despise ignorance, yet is unable to let go of my optimistic nature - something I take joy and pride in. Newer Posts
