Tuesday, March 8, 2011
Chapter 219:
at 23:00
Bought a meaningful book recently, and the first thing learnt is:
How happy are you on your own?
If let's say you're 80 marks happy, then, having a love/partner would have to mean you MUST be at least 81 marks happy.
If not, just be alone.
Being single/"alone" is not bad, it makes you know yourself more, and really sets your expectations high for your love-to-be, because, if you're happy on your own, why would you need someone?
This someone would in fact have to make you happier!
& that's the point.
If he/she doesn't, you might as well be alone.
Because you can; it's a choice.
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& I think, love breeds independence, not dependence.
It's funny and ironic when one becomes dependent.
Good love makes you self-assured, and confident, and adds to you.
Not depletes you, and make you not even able to fill up the shell of the body you have.
(And really, where has the person he/she loved rotted away to?)
It's stupid, if you think this way.
& I swear, I cannot understand why people will do this to themselves.
Do you think so less of yourself that you can't survive on your own?
& are you being fair to i) yourself, and ii)the other?
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& I make a promise to myself, to never become so weak.
(& I'll freaking mean it.)
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